We talked for an hour over lattes, the conversation flowing easily. When we decided to move to a nearby hotel, the excitement built. The room was dimly lit; soft music played. We kissed, explored each other’s bodies, and kept the pace relaxed. I used a fresh condom, as per our agreement.
We revisited the “no‑drugs” rule and added a “safe word” for any moment of discomfort. He texted, “We’ve got this. Remember, you can pause anytime.”
The presence of my husband added a layer of security, but also highlighted moments where I felt self‑conscious. I realized the importance of pacing and checking in more frequently.
A mix of nervous excitement and curiosity. I’ve read about the lifestyle for months, but this is the first time I’m actually meeting someone outside our circle.